Modern Motherhood with Brooke Scheurn

We sat down with Brooke Scheurn to talk all things modern motherhood — the beautiful, the chaotic, the hilarious, and the heart-full. With three little ones and another baby on the way, Brooke shares what life really looks like behind the scenes: the moments that melt her, the messes she’s made peace with, and the rituals that keep her grounded. This one’s a gentle reminder that doing your best doesn’t always look perfect — and that’s more than enough.

 

1. What does modern motherhood look like for you right now, juggling life with three kids and having another on the way!?

It’s a little bit of everything… loud, beautiful, overwhelming, hilarious, exhausting, and completely fulfilling all at once. Most days feel like organized chaos—someone’s always needing a snack, a snuggle, a bandaid, or all three at once. I’m constantly shifting between breaking up toddler fights and soaking up the sweetest little moments that remind me why I love this stage so much. And then add pregnancy hormones to the mix and… yeah, it’s a lot! But honestly, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. 

 

2. Looking back, what’s one thing you wish you’d known before becoming a mom for the first time?

That none of us actually know what we’re doing at first. I spent so much time reading the books and trying to do everything “right,” but the real magic happens when you let go a little and trust yourself. Every baby is different, every season shifts, and you kind of grow into the mom you’re meant to be as you go.

 

3. How has raising children shaped how you see yourself – as a woman and a mother?

Motherhood has stripped me down and built me back up. It’s shown me how strong and capable I really am—but also how human I am. It’s made me softer and more patient (on the good days 😅), but also more aware of my limits and what I need to feel whole outside of being “mom.”

 

4. What does doing your best look like in your house – on the good days, and the chaotic ones?

On the good days, it’s slow mornings, dance parties in the kitchen, homemade snacks, and being super present with my kids. On the chaotic days, it’s survival mode—screen time buys me a shower, dinner is whatever I can throw together, and the win is just making it to bedtime with everyone feeling loved. Both days count. Both are doing my best.

 

5. Is there a moment with your kids that’s stuck with you? Something that either shifted your perspective completely or just made you stop and smile?

So many, but recently—watching my older two help their younger sister with something simple, like playing toys or singing her a song when she cries, and realizing… wow, they’re learning to love and show up for each other in their own little ways. Or having my son tell me he is a “lucky duck” when I say yes to popcorn on the couch and snuggles with mom while we watch Mickey Mouse. Those moments get me every time. 

 

6. How do you find balance in this season of motherhood, between the needs of three little humans and your own?

Honestly… I don’t always. I’ve had to let go of the idea of perfect balance and focus more on rhythms that feel good. Some days are kid-heavy, some days I carve out time for myself, and some days it all blurs together. Having Rhett as a super hands-on partner helps a ton. And I’ve learned that asking for help isn’t a weakness, it’s survival.

 

7. Is there a small ritual or routine you share with your youngest that brings you joy?

Bedtime snuggles. I’m having a hard time accepting she is already 1 but I still carve out the time to snuggle her while she takes her bottle. Then we read a book or two which she is REALLY into right now (we have to hide them when we finish or she will never want to stop) then tickles and singing to her in the rocking chair. She reaches up to touch my cheeks and stares into my eyes as I sing… it melts me.

 

8. What’s something about how you parent that might surprise people?

I’m actually pretty laid back when it comes to routines and rules. I think a lot of people assume I’m super structured, but I lean into flexibility and go-with-the-flow parenting way more than I expected to.

 

9. What kind of support whether from Rhett, friends, or professionals has made the biggest difference for you?

Hands down, Rhett. He shows up in every way—physically, emotionally, mentally—and having a partner who’s equally invested in the day-to-day of parenting has been everything. Also… girlfriends who get it and being able to vent, relate and seek advice from one another.

 

10. When you think about “nourishment,” what comes to mind beyond just food, emotionally or mentally?

Time outside, good conversations with friends, quiet moments when the house is still (rare, but golden), and reminding myself that I’m allowed to take up space as more than just a mom.

 

11. What do you hope your children learn from watching how you navigate motherhood?

That love looks like showing up, even when it’s messy. That they’re allowed to feel big feelings and that you can always pick yourself back up. And that joy and hard things can exist in the same day.

 

12. What advice would you give to another mom deep in the trenches?

You’re doing better than you think. The hard seasons feel never-ending when you’re in them, but they shift. Let the house be messy, let people help you, and give yourself so much grace. Your kids don’t need perfect—they just need you, as you are.